In today’s day and
age, many children – and adults, for
that matter – find themselves
overwhelmed with their tightly
packed lives.
Occasionally, it
is enjoyable to have a full day
of fun activities, but some folks
think it would be nice to have
every day jammed with their
favorite pastimes. However, if kids
get used to having overly crammed
days, it can have a negative impact
on them later on in life.
If children’s lives
are an endless rush from one
activity to another, jumping around
from place to place like a flaming
grasshopper, they will start to lose
their attention span.
Eventually, they
won’t be able to concentrate and
just do one thing for a long period
of time, like watch a movie all the
way to the end without getting
bored, read a book for more than a
few minutes, listen to a full set of
directions or even finish reading
this article.
Instead, they’ll want
to hop from thing to thing to thing.
Sometimes people just
need to slow down and take a chill
pill.
To help kids stay
focused, parents should only involve
their children in one or two
activities at a time.
For example, some of
my friends are totally overbooked
with activities like violin lessons,
baseball, chess club and Boy
Scouting all at once.
I’ve noticed that
those kids have shorter attention
spans, they’re usually tired and
whiny, and they always leave things
unfinished – sometimes even their
lunch. And their parents are run
ragged from carting their child
around from lessons to practice to
club sports. The irony is that
neither the kids nor the parents are
having much fun because they’re too
pooped out.
Another consequence
to overbooking youths’ schedules is
that it can cause a drop in their
grades. Think about it. If students
can’t focus or pay attention to a
teacher for a long period of time,
then how can they get good grades?
(By the way, we’re talking about
average kids here, not geniuses.)
Giving kids a chance
to slow down and relax, and know
they don’t have to go somewhere
every few minutes, helps them think
more clearly, improves their mood,
reduces stress and keeps them
healthier. Unplanned time gives
children the chance to think freely.
It opens up the doors to their
imaginations. Who knows, it might
even give them the time and
motivation to build a dog house,
explore a new interest like
astronomy or even write a book one
day.
Michael Moorehead,
author of ‘The Student from Zombie
Island,’ lives in Pecan Grove and
enters seventh grade at Kyrene
Middle School in August. Website:
www.ZombieIslandBooks.com.